Have you ever asked your child to wait? Especially for something exciting, like their birthday, a visit from friends or family, or an activity. What is their usual reaction when you ask them to wait? Probably negatively. Have you ever wondered why this may be?
The best thing to do is to try to consider what it is like 小蓝视频 in your child's shoes. This way you will have an idea about what your child is feeling and thinking. So you can answer the question, "what does your child think when you tell them to wait?"
Let's do some math, so we can try and figure out what your child is going through when you ask them to wait. Let's assume you are 30, and your child is two.
If your child is two, they are (for simplicities sake) 730 days old. Or even 17,520 hours old. What does it mean to them when you ask them to wait until tonight, or tomorrow, or next week?
Asking them to wait two hours is 0.00011 of their life.
Asking them to wait 12 hours is 0.00068 of their life.
Asking them to wait 1 day is 0.00137 of their life.
Asking them to wait 1 week is 0.00959 of their life.
That doesn't seem like a lot, none are even a full one per cent of their life. But your child is two, and they are perceiving this world through their two-year-old eyes, and their two-year-old life.
So let's understand what your child interprets those wait times into some sort of meaning by putting you, the parent, it their shoes.
Again, let's assume you are 30 years old, or 10,950 days old.
So when you ask them to wait two hours, it is like asking you to wait one day.
When you ask your child to wait 12 hours, it is like asking you to wait 7.5 days.
When you ask your child to wait one day, it is like you waiting 15 days.
Lastly, when you ask your child to wait a week, it is like you are waiting 105 days, about 15 weeks, or 3.5 months.
Are you patient when you are told to wait one day, seven days, 15 days, or 105 days? Especially when it is something you are looking forward to. Probably not, because those are long waiting periods for us as adults!
When we see the world through our eyes and ask our child to wait 12 hours, it is a short time period for us, but not for them. Remember two hours of waiting for them is one day of waiting for us, 12 hours is 7.5 days, one day is 15 days, and one week is 3.5 months.
Hopefully now you will have a little understanding of why your child may be so impatient and frustrated when you ask them to wait for something important to them, it is a long time in their little life.
