There will always be street gangs but their numbers can be reduced. Saskatchewan is plagued with a violent gang problem but gang experts are optimistic there鈥檚 light at the end of the tunnel.
鈥淚 believe they will be less,鈥� said Stan Tu鈥橧nukuafe, cofounder of STR8 UP, a non-profit Saskatoon-based group that helps gang members leave the lifestyle.
鈥淭he reason I say that, not to sound simplistic, but hurting people hurt people. You transmit pain towards other people because you are hurting.鈥�
Community members like to ask, 鈥淲hy are youth joining gangs?鈥� but Tu鈥橧nukuafe turns the question around.
鈥淎 lot of kids join gangs because they feel they don鈥檛 belong. What is your community doing that makes them feel like they don鈥檛 belong? Why is the young person feeling disconnected to your community?鈥�
Gang experts throughout the world echo that sentiment.
鈥淕ang violence is about a lethal absence of hope,鈥� says Father Gregory Boyle, founder of Los Angeles, Calif., Homeboy Industries, the largest gang-intervention, rehabilitation, and re-entry program in the world.
How to get out of a gang
STR8 UP is a grassroots organization that had its beginnings decades ago when Father Andr茅 Poili猫vre, a lead chaplain at the Saskatoon Correctional Centre, teamed up with Stan Tu鈥橧nkuafe, a youth worker with the John Howard Society. Under the umbrella of the John Howard Society they developed an outreach program to help gang members. In 2013 STR8 UP left the John Howard Society and formed a separate non-profit charity.
Today STR8 UP offers outreach services and programs, provides advocacy and support in prisons and courtrooms, and connects former gang members with community supports and resources. They help gang members get out of the gang, return to school, get a job, find housing and stay out of prison.
鈥淲e don鈥檛 recruit and we don鈥檛 advertise,鈥� said Tu鈥橧nkuafe in an interview Aug. 24. 鈥淚t鈥檚 all by word of mouth.鈥�
He said gang members hear about STR8 UP when they are in jail, or through a friend or support worker. Sometimes the hospital will call STR8 UP after a gang member ends up in emergency from a knife or gunshot wound and he鈥檚 afraid and wants to leave the gang.
It鈥檚 a big decision to leave a gang and safety is an issue. But once a gang member reaches out to STR8 UP - and agrees to their five conditions - the long journey of healing begins.
鈥淚f you are interested in joining STR8 UP the first condition is you have to drop your colours,鈥� said Tu鈥橧nkuafe. 鈥淵ou have to make your intention known. You have to tell your higher up. You have to let people know.鈥�
The second decision that must be made by the gang member is to deal with his/her addiction.
鈥淓very gang member has an addiction,鈥� said Tu鈥橧nkuafe.
He said ways to help break an addiction to drugs or alcohol include going to church, attending Alcoholics Anonymous, or participating in Aboriginal spirituality.
鈥淚f they are still using and drop their colours, that fear they have is more of a reality. Using crystal meth and not having slept three to four days they have a heightened sense of anxiety and not thinking straight.鈥�
The third condition is honesty.
鈥淟iving that lifestyle of manipulating and hustling, lying is second nature,鈥� said Tu鈥橧nkuafe. 鈥淲e say 鈥榶ou have to be honest.鈥欌��
Gang members can鈥檛 give lip service to STR8 UP and counselors; just saying they left the gang but still 小蓝视频 in the gang.
鈥淒on鈥檛 tell me one thing and then go and still be in that lifestyle.鈥�
The fourth condition is humility.
鈥淏e humble. That means get rid of the street attitude that 鈥業 can do whatever I want.鈥欌��
The fifth condition is committing four years to STR8 UP.
鈥淚t鈥檚 a symbolic number, healing takes time,鈥� said Tu鈥橧nkuafe.
鈥淛ust because you quit doing drugs that鈥檚 good, but you might still think the same, you might still treat people the same. It takes time to change your values but you can鈥檛 do that if you鈥檙e not sober. Healing isn鈥檛 a sprint, it鈥檚 a marathon race.鈥�
STR8 UP walks alongside former gang members
With STR8 UP, former gang members will have a dedicated outreach worker who supports him/her.
The rehabilitation process includes visions of helping the former gang member become a better citizen.
The first vision is to become better parents.
鈥淵ou have to start where you are at. Do you know your child鈥檚 first, middle and last name? Do you know how to spell that? Do you know their birthdate? Don鈥檛 make any promises (to child) you can鈥檛 keep.鈥�
The second vision is 小蓝视频 a faithful partner.
鈥淚n the gang lifestyle people aren鈥檛 faithful,鈥� said Tu鈥橧nkuafe.
In the gang culture if a gang member tells his girlfriend to sleep with someone else, she has to obey. Girls in gangs are generally treated as commodities and expected to have sex with other members of their gang or rival gang members.
The third vision is 小蓝视频 a responsible citizen.
Tu鈥橧nkuafe said this means different things to different individuals. For one former gang member it can mean finally getting a piece of government issued identification when he/she gets out of prison. For another it means not driving while drunk or high. And the level of responsibility increases over time, said Tu鈥橧nkuafe.
鈥淎s you get healthy, 小蓝视频 a responsible citizen looks different. It could mean working, or going to school, or having your own place.鈥�
STR8 UP supports the former gang member through every step of his/her journey. They help him/her get into a treatment centre, counselling, advocate for visits with their children, help find safe housing and a job.
鈥淲e help people do that,鈥� said Tu鈥橧nkuafe. 鈥淧eople outside the gang life, those goals and conditions look simple. For gang members it鈥檚 hard. It鈥檚 a process.鈥�
Riley: A success story
Three weeks ago Riley, 31, left a Saskatoon street gang and reached out to STR8 UP for help.
鈥淚 gave up my colours,鈥� he said proudly in an interview Aug. 24. 鈥淚 just wanted a fresh start to life without the gang life.鈥�
Being a part of a gang seemed glamorous at first with the alluring promise of women, money and power.
鈥淎t first it was what I expected,鈥� he said. 鈥淭he first couple of months.鈥�
But nothing is ever free and all the fun and good times eventually came with a price tag.
鈥淭hey got me doing stuff that I didn鈥檛 want to do,鈥� said Riley.
Gang members have to follow orders 鈥� without question 鈥� and obeying a leader was Riley鈥檚 least favourite aspect of 小蓝视频 a gang member.
Bit by bit Riley got deeper into the gang lifestyle. He saw and did things that still haunt his soul.
鈥淚f I could go back and change all that, yes I would,鈥� said Riley.
His advice to youth considering joining a gang is simple.
鈥淚 would tell them don鈥檛 do it because it鈥檚 not like you expected, all parties, girls and jewellery. Maybe in the first month or two it鈥檚 kind of like that but in the end it takes a toll on your body and your life.鈥�
Riley speaks from experience. A few years ago he was attacked by rival gang members with a machete and suffered several blows to his head. He was in the hospital four months and had to learn how to walk and talk all over again.
鈥淲hen I was in the hospital the pain was too much.鈥�
Riley also thought his fellow gang members would be there for him while he was in the hospital. They weren鈥檛.
鈥淚t was a let down. I thought my brothers would support me and be there for me and I would have this support, then you realize there鈥檚 nothing like that.鈥�
Eventually, like many gang members, Riley ended up in prison. That鈥檚 where he decided to turn his life around. He heard about STR8 UP and reached out to Tu鈥橧nkuafe.
鈥淏efore I phoned Stan when I was in the correctional centre I didn鈥檛 have a game plan when I got out of jail. Now I got something to look forward to.鈥�
That something is a job, even though it鈥檚 temporary, and a journey of healing.
STR8 UP connects with local businesses to help former gang members get jobs.
鈥淭here just happened to be one company looking for workers when Riley called,鈥� said Tu鈥橧nkuafe. 鈥淚 tell Riley, 鈥業f you do well you are actually opening the doors for other STR8 UP workers.鈥欌��
Tu鈥橧nkuafe said Riley is doing a tremendous job. He shows up on time and is a good worker.
鈥淢y impression is the boss really likes Riley.鈥�
STR8 UP鈥檚 approach to helping gang members leave the lifestyle is working.
鈥淲hat we are doing actually works,鈥� said Tu鈥橧nkuafe. 鈥淚f a person is thinking of leaving, it鈥檚 possible to leave a life of dysfunction and despair. There is hope.鈥�
Rewarding work
Tu鈥橧nkuafe has worked hard over the decades to build trust with gang members wanting to leave the lifestyle.
鈥淚n this line of work relationship is key.鈥�
He said he follows through on what he tells STR8 UP participants he is going to do.
鈥淚 say 鈥業鈥檓 going to do this鈥� and they see that you followed through. That鈥檚 how you build trust.
鈥淭hey grow in an environment of a lot of false promises and people not following through,鈥� added Tu鈥橧nkuafe. 鈥淚 come along and say 鈥業 will help you get your ID鈥� and I follow through. I have been doing this a long time. I have heard people tell me 鈥業 know so and so and they said you鈥檙e going to help me.鈥� So other people vouch for me. Other people say 鈥楽tan is a good guy, talk to him.鈥欌��
He said you have to follow through with what you said you would do, and never judge.
鈥淓ssentially you work with where they are at.鈥�
Helping gang members leave the lifestyle is challenging work but Tu鈥橧nkuafe finds it rewarding.
鈥淲hen you are around gang members and hear them sharing their stories, you will never see more honesty than from them.鈥�
He also appreciates their sense of humour and ability to make changes.
鈥淭hose are the things I enjoy about it,鈥� said Tu鈥橧nkuafe. 鈥淭heir sense of real. They don鈥檛 have to hide. They are authentic.鈥�
He also likes the challenge.
鈥淚 didn鈥檛 see myself sitting behind a desk all day. I saw myself working with people. I was fortunate to have healthy parents and played a lot of sports and had opportunities. I was outgoing and was drawn to work that allowed me to interact with others, but at the same time always learn.鈥�
Tu鈥橧nkuafe said STR8 UP鈥檚 philosophy of helping and not enabling keeps him from getting burned out.
鈥淲e have a saying at STR8 UP. 鈥榃e鈥檙e not there to walk in front of you pulling you, we鈥檙e not there to be behind you pushing you, we are there to just walk beside you so when you fall we will wait until you pick yourself up and walk with you.鈥欌��
Takes a community
Tu鈥橧nkuafe said resources and community support are needed to help people get out of gangs.
He visited Homeboy in Los Angeles and likes their gang-intervention, rehabilitation, and re-entry model.
鈥淚 believe in that model,鈥� said Tu鈥橧nkuafe. 鈥淭hey do a lot of social enterprises.鈥�
In particular Tu鈥橧nkuafe said he likes their approach that an individual needs healing. Homeboy has an 18-month model that focuses as much on healing as it does on developing work readiness skills. Homeboy鈥檚 goal is to help the individual heal from trauma and help them contribute to their family and community. They strive for five key outcomes including reducing recidivism, reducing substance abuse, improving social connectedness, improving housing safety and stability and reunifying families.
鈥淲hen a guy or gal gets out of prison their parole officer says they have to look for work. They find a job and are working all day. STR8 UP argues that just because you鈥檙e working doesn鈥檛 mean you鈥檙e healing. Yes they are working but they get their first pay check and disappear or they are using on the side until it completely falls apart on them.鈥�
Tu鈥橧nkuafe said he would like STR8 UP to follow Homeboy鈥檚 model but needs community partners.
Tu鈥橧nkuafe says he also likes Homeboy鈥檚 explanation of why youth join gangs. They assert that it鈥檚 easier for them to say they join for a sense of belonging than to say they are running from something.
鈥淚f your home environment is a place of chaos and dysfunction and abuse, you are running away from that,鈥� said Tu鈥橧nkuafe.
鈥淚f you find a group of people who accept you the way you are, in the beginning life is better but then you get caught up in the transient lifestyle. It鈥檚 easier for them to say it was for a sense of belonging than to say, 鈥業 was abused or tortured.鈥� It鈥檚 not as simple as saying it鈥檚 belonging. This person was abused, tortured, and their needs were not met.鈥�
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