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Thinking I Do With Words - Context is vital to get why words can offend

While a quick glance to the right might indicate that I’m not the first person you would ask about race relations, I feel as though we need to talk a little bit about the words “all lives matter,” and why they’ve become very controversial in spite of
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While a quick glance to the right might indicate that I’m not the first person you would ask about race relations, I feel as though we need to talk a little bit about the words “all lives matter,” and why they’ve become very controversial in spite of СƵ a fairly innocuous and, honestly, completely accurate statement.

The problem is all due to context. The rise of “all lives matter” started after the “Black Lives Matter” movement began to gain traction, back in 2013 following the shooting death of Trayvon Martin at the hands of George Zimmerman. That statement was a way to call attention to the men and women like Martin, who were killed or beaten by people in authority who didn’t face serious punishment for those crimes. It was a way to call attention to the disproportionate amount of violence faced by black people in America, especially by police. People ignoring that call meant that the violence didn’t actually stop, and the widespread protests in America right now, sparked by the murder of George Floyd at the knees of Minneapolis police, are a direct result.

The problem with “all lives matter” was that it was a way to ignore that call. It was a way of СƵ dismissive, someone saying “black lives matter” could be just ignored completely instead of СƵ engaged with. It was a fairly effective way of drowning out the real concerns, and that’s why it became extremely controversial. It’s not the meaning of the words, it’s the context in which they are used.

Because saying “black lives matter” isn’t saying that other lives don’t matter. It’s instead saying that because black lives do matter, we should be doing more to prevent unnecessary violence and their premature end. It’s calling attention to the threat that those lives are under, which is relatively unique, since black people in America are at a disproportionately high risk to experience violence at the hands of police.

I do recognize that Canada isn’t perfect, even as I reference America above, because we have our own issues, especially surrounding Indigenous people in our country. Canada’s crisis surrounding murdered and missing Indigenous women is something we haven’t dealt with enough. Their lives matter too.

And, let’s be honest, if we need to listen, because their point extends beyond race. It is dangerous if there is a police force that can kill with impunity, even if it’s an unarmed person, even if it’s someone who’s still in bed, such as the case of Breonna Taylor, an EMT shot to death after police went to the wrong apartment. However, in saying that, we’re not all at risk to the same degree, and nobody should pretend that we are, but it’s still vitally important that police violence, in general, is brought to a minimum.

“Black Lives Matter” was meant to function as a reminder that there are millions of people who don’t feel safe going about their daily business. It’s a reminder that their lives are treated like they don’t matter, and that’s a travesty.

Equality doesn’t exist so long as one group continues to be more at risk than another, and equality doesn’t magically exist because you have ignored their concerns and pretended that their issues, their fears, their risks that you don’t necessarily share, don’t exist.

That’s why “all lives matter” has a toxic reputation. Because we know that all lives matter, and we want a world where all lives are treated equally. And by saying that right now, you’re trying to pretend that the problem is already solved. It isn’t, the last couple weeks have been proof of that. All lives might matter, but instead of brushing inequality under the rug we have to treat those lives like they matter. That means remembering black lives matter, indigenous lives matter, and doing what we can to ensure they’re not only safe, but feel as though those of us with privilege aren’t looking down on them and their struggle. We have to listen and make real changes. Ignoring the problem just makes it worse.

When someone says “Black Lives Matter,” listen to them, don’t dismiss them with an innocuous platitude. Because right now the people saying “All Lives Matter” in response are actually saying that they don’t, because they’re not willing to engage and ensure that they do.

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