Her husband had been slipping in and out of a coma when suddenly he motioned for his wife to come closer. "You know,鈥� he said, when I got fired, when I went bankrupt, when I got shot by a burglar, when we lost the house, you were always there. Even when my health failed, you stood by me."
"Now that I think about it, it sure looks like you bring me bad luck."
There is a light-hearted approach to facing our dark moments: 鈥淢ay your life be filled, as mine has been, with love and laughter; and remember, when things are rough all you need is ... Chocolate鈥� 鈥� Geraldine Solon.
Actually, sometimes we need Jesus. Let me share a recent experience.
I was taking the Holy Communion to a hospital patient. The nurse had prepared me by suggesting this lady was feeling rough, and her mind was perhaps failing her. I went through the ritual prayers and she received the sacrament that was to give her strength.
Just before I left her she pleaded, 鈥淗elp me!鈥� She was feeling some desperation.
Sometimes we need to be Jesus for others. I put my hands on her head and prayed for Jesus to give her strength; to bless her. I reassured her that she was not alone in her suffering. Jesus was with her. And she had her Angel who is with her at all times. 鈥淲e are never alone,鈥� I reassured her.
In Psalm 34, King David declared,
鈥淭hey [the virtuous] cry for help and Yahweh hears
and rescues them from all their troubles;
Yahweh is near to the broken-hearted,
He helps those whose spirit is crushed.鈥�
In an everyday life example Tyrell Mara shares why our darkest moments on the toughest days are essential to propel us to achieving success: 鈥淚 walked out of the discus pit frustrated and distraught. 鈥淗ow will I ever make it to the Olympics throwing like this?
鈥淣othing was going right; nothing felt good, and each throw struggled to soar into the field. My coach continued to cue more over and over, but nothing seemed to be clicking. It was one of those days.
鈥淎nd it sucked. I questioned everything about what I was doing. On the drive home I repeatedly asked myself why I am doing this. What鈥檚 the point after a terrible session like that?鈥�
Tyrell reflects on how we have to struggle with our failing efforts. There are valleys, he concludes. And there are truths about 鈥渉ard things.鈥�
鈥淟ike it or not the hard days are actually the most important,鈥� he muses. 鈥淭he hard days are where we learn, grow and are presented with the opportunity to become better.
鈥淵our defining moment is not when an athlete goes for that game winning play,鈥� Tyrell says. 鈥淭he defining moments 鈥� yes they are countless 鈥� come long before during lonely training sessions, tough meetings and challenging executive decisions.
鈥淚f you can鈥檛 make it through the darkest moments of the toughest days you are not ready to climb this mountain.鈥�
鈥淭he journey is the reward,鈥� Tyrell says. Those tough training sessions, of which there are hundreds, 鈥渢hese are the days where someone else in the world is giving up.鈥�
鈥淎ffliction is a good man's shining time鈥� 鈥� Edward Young.
In times of trouble it is good to be a Christian. 鈥淓ven in my darkest hour the Lord will bless me with His power, His loving grace will sure abound, in His sweet care I shall be found鈥� 鈥� Author unknown.
